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SEEING CLEARLY: The bidding ends, the opening lead is made and the Dummy's cards are tabled. Whether you are Declarer or Defender, analyze and make a plan. After a few tricks are played the critical point of the hand is reached. You have to consider what has happened. Can you do this without a positive or negative evaluation. Can you neither add nor subtract any value judgment to the preceding play? If you can, then you can see things as they are: clearly and undistorted. You can evaluate the situation with a quiet mind. This is the experts inner skill. There is nothing intrinsic in the play that warrants a value judgment. The experts knowledge of this keeps him totally focused in the present. The beginner/judge on the other hand is starting on a path of self destruction. For judgment provokes a thought process of further evaluation, over thinking the problem that leads to a tightening up and a self-conscious performance. "I played this game terribly." Or "I'm having a bad day." Or "I'm in a slump." And after a few more bad plays: "I'm a lousy Bridge player." These self judgments become self fulfilling prophecies and eventually you become what you think you are. To progress as a Bridge player you must see every play clearly, dispassionately, objectively. Whether it is a "great", "good" or "super" play; or a "bad", "awful" or "terrible" play. Whether a "horrible mistake" or a "brilliant coup." It is impossible to judge some situations as positive without judging others as negative. You cannot stop just the negatives. So to see your play and the Bridge situation as it really is, end all attributes of goodness and badness. Remove personal judgment and use descriptive non judgmental terms to describe your game. Ending judgments does not mean that you should not examine or observe your mistakes. Letting go of judgments does not equal ignoring errors. But it means seeing your play clearly, without judgmental labels that can lead to emotional reactions. Then like the expert, your Bridge will improve with time and nurturing. |
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